Thursday, 26 February 2009

Week 6 NLP 25th February 2009 Coaching Questions and States Meta States Developing the Hero in You – Conquer the no Confidence Trap

St Mary's Le Bow London 20th Feb 2009

Interesting week after the midterm break, 11 in class, and start by being asked if anything excited happen at all. I mention the Empowerment Workshop and the ZING factor and finding genuine peer-peer connections. Paired off to talk about own hero’s journey. Mine own experience of a real challenge was 10 years previously when I met my wife to be and had to make a life changing decision, to leave my job, home, country, culture, family behind for a challenging and enriching experience (being married, with a new daughter, country, culture and work environment). The whole episode in perspective was a unique and rare opportunity to test one’s resolve to undertake a major life transition without knowing the result. How I coped and managed seemed determined by my wife and her family that made the transition easier than I imagined. My time spent aboard was beneficial from many aspects (I learned to be Mexican – love music, dress style, cook fantastic meals, travel to see the ancient civilisations, understand real poverty, living and working in harmony as never before). I also published several professional papers afterwards and chapters in a local health care book (good result), and had a strong knowledge of cultural diversity with overseas students and can empathise with them.

This leads onto one’s own intelligent purpose and I reminded of Steve Pavlina website
http://www.stevepavlina.com/blog/2008/07/the-purpose-of-life/ which is quite illuminating.
Paired up with a 53 year lady Christian and worked through Hero's Journey. She was not that comfortable to startv with but soon opened up when we realsied we had similar background. A born again Christian and slightly more than I bargained for with Gospel quotes and thoughts. She thinks NLP and Christainity are good for each other.

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